My students have often said: "I don't want to be a doormat." I reply "when you
use nonresistance with wisdom, no one will ever be able to walk over you."
Another example: One day I was impatiently awaiting an important telephone call.
I resisted every call
that came in and made no outgoing calls myself, reasoning that it might interfere with the one I was
awaiting. Instead of saying, "Divine ideas never conflict, the call will come at the right time," leaving it to
Infinite Intelligence to arrange, I commenced to manage things myself I made the battle mine, not God's
and remained tense and anxious.
The bell did not ring for about an hour, and I glanced at the 'phone and
found the receiver had been off that length of time, and the 'phone was disconnected. My anxiety, fear and
belief in interference, had brought on a total eclipse of the telephone. Realizing what I had done, I
commenced blessing the situation at once; I baptized it "success," and affirmed, "I cannot lose any call
that belongs to me by divine right; I am under grace, and not under law."
A friend rushed out to the nearest telephone, to notify the Company to reconnect. She entered a crowded
grocery, but the proprietor left his customers and attended to the call himself. My 'phone was connected at
once, and two minutes later, I received a very important call, and about an hour afterward, the one I had
been awaiting.
One's ships come in over a calm sea.
So long as man resists a situation, he will have it with him. If he runs away from it, it will run after him.
For example: I repeated this to a woman one day, and she replied, "How true that is! I was unhappy at
home, I disliked my mother, who was critical and domineering; so I ran away and was married but my
husband was exactly like my mother, and I had the same situation to face again." "Agree with adversary
quickly."
This means, agree that the adverse situation is good, be undisturbed by it, and it falls away of its own
weight. "None of these things move me," is a wonderful affirmation. The inharmonious situation comes
from some inharmony within man himself. When there is, in him, no emotional response to an
inharmonious situation, it fades away forever, from his pathway. So we see man's work is ever with
himself.
People have said to me, "Give treatments to change my husband, or my brother." I reply, "No, I will give
treatments to change you; when you change, your husband and your brother will change." One of my
students was in the habit of lying. I told her it was a failure method and if she lied, she would be lied to.
She replied, "I don't care, I can't possibly get along without lying." One day she was speaking on the
'phone to a man with whom she was very much in love.
She turned to me and said, "I don't trust him, I know he's lying to me." I replied, "Well, you lie yourself,
so someone has to lie to you, and you will be sure it will be just the person you want the truth from."
Some time after that, I saw her, and she said, "I'm cured of lying."
I questioned: "What cured you?" She replied: "I have been living with a woman who lied worse than I
did!" One is often cured of his faults by seeing them in others. Life is a mirror, and we find only ourselves
reflected in our associates. Living in the past is a failure method and a violation of spiritual law.
Jesus Christ said, "Behold, now is the accepted time." "Now is the day of Salvation."